Opinion on Bucks Nights "Surprises"?

Im getting married in a years time and my fiancee and I got to talking about our hens and bucks nights. The usual drinking and partying come up, which Im fine with, but now he wants to go to strip clubs and such. I am totally against this, but he wont back down. I dont know what else to say, I feel its cheating and its a real deal breaker for me. Any help on talking to him about this, or opinions for me to consider to let this go/take it less seriously would really help!